Keep the Fire Going in the Relationship

Some time ago I wrote an article it was short and covered a few thoughts I had on relationships. Also some possibilities on how to keep the fire in the relationship going. I wrote it when I was single. Looking at it now I was not far off the mark.

My Original Article

There is an old saying that says: “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” Then should not the house have a nice, inviting sent of tasteful delights?
The bed room should enhance the virility of a man and should be the best looking room as well. Studies have shown that red and black increases a man’s virility. The bed room should be a sanctuary to you as his wife and to him. This room is where a man and a woman often show in the most wonderful way how they feel about each other. Therefore it should be welcoming. I would go on to tell of what the bed room should smell like but I have not found any studies that have said if a certain sent is supposed to encourage his feelings or desires for sex. I must put in a disclaimer though: I do not mean to say that sex is the glue that holds a relationship together and I do not mean that if u do not have sex daily that he will not be happy. we all have our limits but since marriage is were sex is to be then should it not be in a pleasantly, wonderfully, inviting atmosphere?
Not that all of the other rooms in the house should be neglected because if they are his mind will be on the things that need doing around the house. Also the house should be tasteful to all occupants and guest of the house.

Further thoughts

Yes, food is important and must always be considered. Diet plays a major role in our health. So it stands to reason it can affect our libido or mind set. We3176374090_f0e251abbb_o are beings who use our senses to tell us about our safety, our likes, dislikes and so much more. Therefore it stands to reason what we see with our eyes will also affect our sleep, our sex lives, and intern affecting our mood.  In an article I wrote called where is the fire I talk about relationships from a different perspective

More Evidence

One article I recently read give you a list of herbs to assist in the sexual relationships. In another article Color was the subject, and how it affects out sleep or our desire for our mate. The article by houzz said “People with blue rooms appear to be getting the best night’s sleep, while people with caramel-colored walls are having the most sex.”

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